[craftymama]

My husband and I are both sick. He works 3-4 days a week, I work 5 plus do everything for the kids and house. Because he is sick I keep getting asked to get him "this" or "that". It's driving me crazy because I know if I say something we will get into a big fight but at the same time I am sick too! Any advice?

[Bella]

My ex was like that and it just reached a point where I had to tell him no. I know the last thing you want when you're sick is to get into a fight, but you also need to take care of yourself so you can get better.

You could try saying something like, "I know you don't feel well, but neither do I and I'm feeling very overwhelmed right now." If that doesn't work, I would just say no.

Hope you feel better soon

[Freebird]

I hope you feel better as well. I don't just think it is men; I think there are just some people who think the world revolve around them. When they don't feel well they tend to think the world revolves around them.

[Cinderella]

Act like you are more sick than he is and ask him to do this and to do that and to take care of you as well.